If you are looking for strategies and support to address the splats above, you are in the right place.

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Our Kaleidoscope membership includes instructional material and group support.

Let's make parenting less stressful and more fun by making one small change at a time.

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You will get immediate access to all material in the "Month 1 -Week 1" section upon sign up.

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Membership - Level 2: Kaleidoscope (Study + Group)

This is a year long monthly parenting membership which includes:

1 masterclass per month

1 workbook per month to support the masterclass each month

4 weekly challenges per month

Flutter Virtual Community Group Access

Weekly Virtual Group Question-Answer Chat Access

Contents

Month 1-Week 1: Tapping...a free and easily accessible stress relief tool

This class will address the following:

  • How Tapping (Emotional Freedom Technique, or EFT) can be used to relieve stress in ourselves as adults

  • How it can be used to relieve stress in our kids

BEP Parenting Membership Intro Video.mp4
BEP 1st month Tapping Masterclass.mp4
1st month EFT Tapping Workbook A4 Document.pdf
BEP 1st month week 1 challenge self observation.mp4
BEP Question-Answer Chat Access.pdf
Flutter Intro Video.mp4
BEP Flutter Virtual Community Group Access Tips .pdf

Month 1-Challenge 2: Tapping...the How To section

Month 1 Challenge 2 is about using the Tapping stress reduction/prevention tool to reduce our own stress.

BEP 1st month week 2 challenge-EFT for adults.mp4

Month 1-Challenge 3: Our child's stress patterns

Challenge #3 this month is to observe our child's stress patterns this week.

BEP 1st month week 3 challenge stress patterns in our kids.mp4
1st month Tapping with Children workbooklet.pdf

Month 1-Challenge 4: Using Star Tapping with our kids

Let's do the children's tapping points and steps with our kids.

Let's teach the children's tapping process to our kids to use on themselves.

BEP 1st month week 4 challenge Star tapping with our kids.mp4

Month 2-Week 1: Behavior is Communication.

This class will address the following:

  • Reasons for our kids' behaviors

  • How to understand what our kids are telling us through their behaviors

  • How to help our kids meet their needs in more positive ways

BEP 2nd month Behavior is Communication Masterclass.mp4
2nd month Workbook Behavior is Communication.pdf
BEP 2nd month week 1 challenge Connection.mp4

Month 2-Challenge 2: Teamwork

This challenge is about getting our kids to team up with us.

BEP 2nd month week 2 challenge Teamwork.mp4

Month 2- Challenge 3: Connection through investigating and finding solutions with our kids

This challenge is about building more connection with our kids through fun activities that involve finding solutions together.

BEP 2nd month week 3 challenge Investigating with our kids.mp4

Month 2-Challenge 4: Finding joy in Paying it Forward

This challenge nurtures our kids' need for generosity.

BEP 2nd month week 4 challenge generosity.mp4

Month 3 - Week 1: Control, Influence, Resilience...

They tell us "You can't make me," and they are right. We can't...or can we?

BEP 3rd month masterclass You can't make me.mp4
3rd month You Can't Make Me! Workbook Document.pdf
BEP 3rd month week 1 challenge control.mp4

Month 3- Challenge 2: Regaining Control

This challenge is about changing our words...one way to regain control.

BEP 3rd month week 2 challenge words that empower.mp4

Month 3 - Challenge 3: Empower you; Surprise them.

Even more solution focused language. Pleasantly surprise your kids while empowering yourself.

BEP 3rd month week 3 challenge saying yes first.mp4

Month 3 -Challange 4: No stressing over reminders

No reminders, please. This challenge is likely the most difficult one this month...or maybe that's just for me. lol

BEP 3rd month week 4 challenge no reminders.mp4

Month 4-Week 1: Mindful Self Compassion- a powerful self-care strategy

This month is about self care through mindful self-compassion. We will look at the components of MSC and talk practical application.

BEP 4th month masterclass Mindful Self Compassion.mp4
4th month Mindful Self-Compassion workbook.pdf
BEP 4th month week 1 weekly challenge mindfulness.mp4

Month 4- Challenge 2: Self-Kindness

This challenge is about practical application of self kindness.

BEP 4th month week 2 challenge self kindness.mp4

Month 4- Challenge 3: Quell Self-Isolation

This challenge is about bringing ourselves out of self-isolation.

BEP Month 4 Week 3 weekly challenge common humanity.mp4

Month 4 - Challenge 4: Self-Care versus Self-Indulgence

This challenge includes practical information about engaging in self-care.

BEP 4th month week 4 challenge self-kindness versus self-indulgence.mp4

Month 5-Week 1: Getting our kids to listen to us; getting our kids to talk to us

This month is about using language with our kids that elicits better communication and connection.

BEP 5th month Caring Conversations masterclass.mp4
5th month workbook Caring Conversations.pdf
BEP Month 5 Week 1 challenge uninterrupted chat time... Sparks.mp4

Month 5-Challenge 2: Getting our kids to talk to us...

This challenge is all about asking our kids the right questions.

BEP 5th month week 2 challenge asking the right questions.mp4

Month 5-Challenge 3: Building our kids up

This challenge is about affirming our kids' awesomeness.

BEP 5th month week 3 challenge- building our kids up.mp4

Month 5-Challenge 4: Showing our kids that we get it.

This challenge is aobut showing our kids that we understand where they are coming from...which makes it much more likely that they will be interested in teaming up with us.

BEP 5th month week 4 challenge-showing our kids that we get it.mp4

Month 6-Week 1: Giving ourselves a break...

This month is about getting our time back, our energy (and our serenity) back. We are not air traffic controllers. Serenity Now!

BEP 6th month masterclass Serenity Now.mp4
6th month workbook Serenity Now.pdf
BEP 6th month week 1 challenge giving ourselves a break.mp4

Month 6 - Challenge 2: Handing our kids' problems back to them

We don't have to solve all of our kids' problems. For this challenge, let's give their problems back to them. Stress off...

BEP 6th month week 2 challenge handing our kids' problems back.mp4

Month 6-Challenge 3: Recovering lost or wasted time...

This challenge is about getting our time back...time spent not doing our own stuff.

BEP 6th month week 3 challenge Getting our time back..mp4

Month 6 - Challenge 4: Recovering lost energy

This is where we get our energy back...energy that was spent not engaged in life the way we want to be.

BEP 6th month week 4 challenge Restore your energy .mp4

Month 7-Week 1: Resetting our nervous system to calm

This month is all about resetting our nervous system to calm, cool and collected, with a method that is free and easily accessible.

BEP 7th month Masterclass Vagus Nerve Reset.mp4
7th month workbook Vagus Nerve 3rd ed.pdf
BEP 7th month week 1 challenge recognizing stress.mp4

Month 7 - Challenge 2: noticing what stresses us out

This challenge is about taking (and making) note of the things, people, situations and environments that stress us out.

BEP 7th month week 2 challenge triggers.mp4

Month 7 - Challenge 3: Using simple nervous system regulation strategies

This challenge is about doing these simple regulation strategies...trying several of them and finding the ones that work for you.

BEP 7th month week 3 challenge nervous system activities.mp4

Month 7 - Challenge 4: Stress Prevention

This challenge brings the other challenges this month together to prevent stress responses. For this challenge, we can use the information that we have gathered during the other challenges this month for stress prevention.

BEP 7th month week 4 challenge prevention with vagus nerve exercises.mp4

Month 8 - Week 1: Connecting and supporting via communication

This month is about using communication to connect with our children and support their emotions and behavior.

BEP 8th month masterclass Simple Strategies for Household Harmony.mp4
8th month workbook Simple Strategies for Household Harmony.pdf
BEP 8th month week 1 challenge words connection breakers and makers.mp4

Month 8 - Challenge 2: How to give feedback so our kids (and others) will listen.

Giving feedback is tricky, but this challenge gives step by step instructions about how to do it in the best way possible. Let's do this!

BEP 8th month week 2 challenge feedback sandwich.mp4

Month 8 - Challenge 3: Observing our child's communication system for better connection

This challenge is about figuring out our child's communication style so we can match it for better connection.

BEP 8th month week 3 challenge mirroring and pacing.mp4

Month 8 - Challenge 4: Matching our child's communication system for better connection

This week uses what we figured out in the last challenge.

In this challenge, we will work on matching our child's communication style for better communication and connection.

BEP 8th month week 4 Challenge using communication styles to connect.mp4

Month 9-week 1: Helping our kids (and ourselves) with emotional regulation

This month is all about emotional regulation with our kids.

BEP 9th month masterclass Emotion ID and Regulation.mp4
9th month workbook Riding the Waves...teaching kids about emotions.pdf
BEP 9th month week 1 challenge ID feelings.mp4

Month 9 - Challenge 2: Curb over-reacting

This challenge is about teaching our kids the difference between small and large problems...and that small problems require small reactions.

BEP 9th month week 2 keeping small problems small.mp4

Month 9 - Challenge 3: Choices

This challenge is about how to give choices to our kids.

BEP 9th month week 3 challenge choices.mp4

Month 9 - Challenge 4: Taking our kids from dysregulation to problem solving

This challenge is about using the 3R system to bring our kids to problem solving mode.

BEP 9th month week 4 challenge 3 Rs.mp4

Month 10 - Week 1: Chilling with Mindfulness

This month is about how to practice mindfulness to create calm.

BEP 10th month master class Mindfulness.mp4
10th month workbook...MIndfulness.pdf
BEP 10th month week 1 challenge magic questions.mp4

Month 10 - Challenge 2: Using Grounding Techniques

This challenge is about using grounding techniques to calm our emotions...and to help our kids calm their emotions as well.

BEP 10th month week 2 challenge grounding.mp4

Month 10 - Challenge 3: Practicing Mindfulness by "Noticing Stuff"

This challenge is about practicing some of the mindfulness activities and figuring out which ones work for you and adding those to your toolbox.

BEP 10th month week 3 challenge noticing stuff.mp4

Month 10 - Challenge 4: Using "brain puzzles"

This challenge is to try out some high focus and concentration activities to generate calmness. More tools to add to your toolbox.

BEP 10th month week 4 challenge mindful activities.mp4

Month 11 - Week 1: Calm, Cool, Collected and Connected

This month is about choosing activities that regulate and connect at the same time, and doing them with your child. The ones that you both like can be added to that toolbox. :)

BEP 11th Masterclass...Calm, Cool, Collected and Connected.mp4
11th Module Workbook...Calm, Cool, Connected, and Collected.pdf
BEP 11th month week 1 challenge brain dance .mp4
Brain Dance chart.docx

Month 11 - Challenge 2: Back and forth activities

Here are some connection building activities that involve exchanges between you and your child. Notice which ones build the most family connection.

BEP 11th month week 2 challenge back and forth.mp4

Month 11 - Challenge 3: Body-Brain Activities

Let's try some fun activities that move the body to calm the brain. See which ones you and your child like best.

BEP 11th month week 3 challenge body brain activities.mp4

Month 11 - Challenge 4: Bilateral Activities

Let's try some fun activities that use bilateral movement to also calm the brain.

BEP 11th month week 4 challenge bilateral stimulation.mp4

Month 12 - Week 1: Cognitive Strategies to reduce stress

These methods utilize thinking, learning, understanding, knowing, and remembering.

BEP 12th month week 1 challenge connection language.mp4
12th module workbook Cognitive strategies.pdf
BEP 12th month masterclass Cognitive strategies.mp4

Month 12 - Challenge 2: Ditch the thought traps

This challenge is about recognizing when you are in a thought trap and getting yourself out of it.

BEP 12th month week 2 challenge thought traps.mp4

Month 12 - Challenge 3: Gratitude for stress reduction

This challenge is about using gratitude to reduce stress...with suggestions for setting up a gratitude practice.

BEP 12th month week 3 challenge gratitude.mp4

Month 12 - Challenge 4: Celebrations!

This final challenge is to celebrate you...including your parenting journey.

Congratulations, Fellow Parent!

BEP 12th month week 4 challenge celebrations.mp4